May 27
I’ve had an ongoing debate with a girl I dated a few times. Recently I said we should hang out, and she countered with “only if it’s as just friends” as she’s seeing someone. Her Facebook says “single” so I enquire about it. It goes back and forth until she admits that she is dating around, but only sleeping with one guy. I maintain that, if you’re exclusive intimately with one guy only, then you are in fact not single as you’re limiting yourself with anyone else. She maintains she’s single. I’m guessing she’s one of a few girls on this guys roster since he’s likely “single” too. Is it low self esteem? I dunno. I say sh*t or get off the pot.   Â
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May 29th, 2007 at 11:33 am
I have one word for what she is doing but I don’t think I can put it up here. But I think one can use thier imagination for what that word is….well there are a few words really.
Anyhow the situation reads as she has a #$@! buddy until something “better” comes along and is using this guy as her “back up” when all else fails. She loves to get all the samples she can but never commit to getting the whole package. She gets as much as she can so long as its “free.”
This grrl needs a warning label…damaged goods indeed.
May 29th, 2007 at 3:20 pm
Umm i was just reading this and i think that the year is 2007 and u can date more then one person and still be single. As long as your honest about what you are doing wen people ask you what business of it is yours?
Josh says: I think when you’re restricting intimacy to one person, it means you are excluding anyone else from this next step, and not fully available. Exclusive = not single. What business of mine? Well, I was dating her and this is what I was told. So it effects me personally. But I’m done with it.
May 29th, 2007 at 10:26 pm
I would have to agree with you that she should shit or get off. Tha fact that she’s in the kind of relationship that would allow her to “see” other guys but sleep with only one makes me question what her moral values are in the first place and should make you qustion what you’re dealing with in this chick. Unless of course you’re looking for the score and that’s it, in which case tell her to quite wasting your time if she doesn’t have something to offer
May 30th, 2007 at 3:53 pm
We had a girl like that in my highschool class (oh, so many years ago now). Everyone called her “soup”.
If it were me, I’d just cut my losses.
June 15th, 2007 at 4:24 pm
hahahahha…… soup.
eww.
gross. lmao
June 15th, 2007 at 6:30 pm
i’d say it’s entirely possible (sorry to burst your bubble sugar) that’s she’s maintaining her single status because she’s not entirely satisfied with the guys she’s seeing. If she wants to look around while she keeps him (just in case), she’s certainly not going to advertize her relationship, whether it be casual or otherwise… Perhaps she’s actually over you Josh, and although she finds herself wanting something more than what she currently has, she may not want to revert back to old habits….Much Luv
June 29th, 2007 at 10:17 am
I call it the same as cheating. I guess if both people agree and everyone involved knows whats going on and is fine with it. Go for it. Put yourself out there and be a ****. I would personally feel guilty. But I don’t know maybe its just a conscience thing.